wedding planning is so stressful! i think it would be much easier to help somebody else with their wedding, rather than plan your own. there are just so many decisions to make and way to many options. it doesn't help either when your significant other keeps telling you that getting married in vegas by elvis would have been a better idea :) it's amazing how things get so much bigger than planned. and their are so many things and people to think about. many people tell me that it is my wedding so i should just do what i want ( and of course take the grooms ideas as well) but really a wedding is for the entire family. especially the mothers! and i just don't think i am the type of person that will just choose to do only what i want. i will maintain my vision but i don't think it is a terrible idea to make some other family members happy by taking their ideas as well. of course that is just me. i don't think i could do it any other way. so in the end. i will be happy with the results of our wedding. friends and family getting together to celebrate with us, and me married to the greatest guy in the world! i am happy! but i will be even happier on may 2nd!!!